During the course of your lifetime you are going to make thousands of decisions. From the something as simple as what shoes to wear. To the more complex dilemmas, such as college or work. Do I get married or stay single. etc…… Some of these choices will require a little help and some will not. Some will make you feel dominant and defiant. Yet others will leave you wondering whether or not you made the right one. Still others might take time, but they will leave you asking yourself ‘what the hell was I thinking?’
Either way you must be able to do one of two things. A. You can stick up for yourself and stand behind your decision knowing you made the right one. B. You can prepare yourself to face the consequences and apologize when needed. The latter of these two is not something that you can let your ego step in and get in the way of. When the time comes you must be able to do it humbly, but with dignity.
I have been on both sides of the fence here. I have to tell you that even though I have fully apologized for the choices I made that were not so good. I have not been fully forgiven. That is one of the consequences I was talking about earlier. On that note, not forgiving someone for past mistakes and learning to move on with your lives as a whole, can tear the sums further apart.
Disclaimer: The decision to keep your loved ones close should never be a decision. Rather an action that takes place everyday no matter what the circumstances are.
About Bigboomer
Hello, first of all I would like to thank you for visiting my blogsite. I am going to tell you a little about me. My name is Ray, I started writing back in high school. Every once in a while I would come up with a few ideas and would write them down. Most of which became poems others became short stories.
Some of my inspirations are of the heart, some of them come from the thoughts of the day. You will see, as you browse threw my site my poetry is about as diverse as you can get. I hope that as you read them some will have you thinking of love, while others will make you feel sorrow. I would like some of them to set you off to an adventure. Finally, I have some poems that may make you hungry. I do have some inspirations that just plane turn into ramblings or rants as, if you read in here, you will see.
I have managed to get two books published so far, the first one is titled Pathways, it may be found at xlibris.com/RayBohdan.html. there you can view a couple of excerpts form the book. The second book is Mingling Hues of My Mind it is at publish America
A little bit more about me. I am fifty-one years old I have three children, Rainney, Elisa, and Anthony and two well, actually, three grandchildren Raeanne Marie, Graycee, and Amaya. I guess I could go on, but then I am afraid this will come out sounding like a dating profile.
Part of my site will be dedicated to my poetry, I plan to break it down into different sections and organize it by type/style.
Another section of this site will be dedicated to my blog it will be about my rants/thoughts of the day. These will vary from political, to personal, to comical. I will talk about most anything and everything that I feel may be of interest to someone.
I also will devote a section to some of my favorite recipes with hints on how to capture his/her heart by winning their stomach. My favorite foods are Italian and Mexican, but this section will not be limited to those two types.
I do believe however, that the most important part of my site will be the dedication pages. These will be to memorialize special loved ones and friends, as well as thank those that have made purchases of my afore-mentioned book.
This is exactly what you think it is. A way for me to sell my self as a writer. Publicly get my words and thoughts out into the world. Please believe me when I say that this in no way demeans or diminishes my passions for the people and the love of which I have written, and will continue to write. I trust that once you read my poems you will feel the love i have felt, the pains I have been through, and the joys of life itself.
Once again I thank you for stopping by please enjoy.
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